||[14 Dec 2007|09:18am]
* what is your name?: Laura.
* what is the current date?: 14 December 2007
* what is your sex?: Female
* what is your birthday?: 25 March 1986
* what is your current relationship status?: Single
* what is your sexual orientation? (if you don't mind me asking): Straight
* what character traits do you look for in a potential interest?: Humour, Charisma, Charm, Honesty
* what sort of people do you like, as far as what they're interested in in life?: Music
* what physical traits do you look for in a potential interest?: Tall, Strong built, Tattoos (haha), Dark hair, Green eyes..
* what kind of fashion-sense attracts you?: I'm open.
* what kind of hair style do you find attractive on a potential mate?: Again, i'm open
* what is the usual age range you look at?: 22 - 29
* what traits turn you off?: Rudeness, Dry sense of humour, Eliteism.
* do you prefer to date various people, or do you pretty much fall into monogamous relationships quickly?: I don't really do dating.
* are you afraid to ask people out on dates?: Not really.
* if you're single right now, do you wish you were in a relationship?: Not particularly..
* what are the positive points about being single?: I can do what i want, when i want!
* what are the negative points about being single?: No one to come home and whinge about the day with.
* when single, do you often find youself longing for companionship?: Sometimes.
* how well do you handle rejection?: Not well, usually.
* do you miss your last someone?: Yeah, i do.
* do you think it's better to look for love, or let it find you?: Let it find you.
when you're in a relationship
* if you're currently in a relationship right now, how long have you been in it?: N/A
* what's the longest relationship you've been in?: 12 months.
* the shortest?: 3 days.
* what are the positive points about being in a relationship?: Companionship.
* what are the negative points about being in a relationship?: Compromise.
* have you ever gone out with someone you didn't know very well?: Yeah
* have you ever gone out with someone you had a crush on?: Of course.
* have you ever gone out with someone who had a crush on you?: Yes
* what is an example of an ideal, perfect day with your someone?: I prefer chaos...none of this perfect day shit.
* how important is it to you to know the exact status of your relationships (ie: "dating", "going steady", etc)?: Not overly. haha
* do you think couples should spend a very large amount of time together, or space things out a tad?: A little from column A and a little from column B
* have you ever found yourself worried about commitment?: Yes
* when involved, do you try to think about the here-and-now, or do you often think about the future?: Both
* how do you prefer to handle disagreements?: Fight it out.
* when in a fight, it is better to euphamize things to soften the hurt, or should one be blunt?: Both i think
* how do you feel when your mate is mad at you and won't tell you why?: It fucking sucks.
* do you have a crush right now?: Yes
* do they know?: I think he has a fair idea, yes haha
* what's the longest period of time you've ever had a crush?: A few years, on and off.
* have you ever confessed your feelings to a crush?: Yes
* has someone who had a crush on you ever confessed to you?: Yes
* do you tell a lot of people when you have a crush?: A few
* how do you feel about long-distance relationships?: Not doing that!
* if so, does a phone call with them make you feel better of worse?: A bit of both.
* have you ever pined for someone when you're not around them?: Yes
* would you get involved with someone if they had a child already?: Probably not actually, haha
* what would you do if you got pregnant / made her pregnant while in a relationship?: Talk to them about it.
* would you get involved with someone if they were previously married?: Yes
* how big of an issue is your mate's morals, to your compatibility?: Somewhat
* how big of an issue is political beliefs, to your compatibility?: Not important
* how big of an issue is religion to your compatibility?: Well, i'm an athiest so if they're okay with...
* how big of an issue to you is your mate's ethnicity?: Not too big.
* in a potential mate, how important is conversation to you?: Pretty important
* in a potential mate, how important is intelligence to you?: Pretty important
* in a potential mate, how important is sense of humor to you?: Very.
* in a potential mate, how important is understanding to you?: Very.
* in a potential mate, how important is forgiveness to you?: Pretty important
* how tangible do your shared feelings have to be? (aka: are words even necessary?): Depends on the situation i guess.
* what makes your heart flutter, and brings a bit cheesy smile to your face?:
* what was your first kiss like?: Awful.
* what parts of a person's body do you find most attractive?: Arms, Hands, Backs, Collarbones, Hip Bones!!
* what's the first thing you look at when you look at someone you're attracted to?: I'm not sure actually..
* how important is the looks of a mate's face to you?: Fair important i guess
* how important is the looks of a mate's body to you?: Yeah, and again ^
* when you kiss someone for the first time, is it usually you who initiates it, or the other?: Sometimes me, sometimes them.
* when you are about to kiss someone for the first time, do you generally feel calm, or are you nervous?: Depends who it is.
* can you generally tell when the time is right for a first kiss to happen with your object of interest?: Yeah, i think so
* what are you're favorite places to be touched?: This is silly, clearly.
* what are your favorite places to touch?: BACK!
* what are you're favorite places to be kissed?: Collarbones!
* what are your favorite places to kiss?: Hip bones.
* do you prefer long sensual kisses or shorter pecks?: Long
* have you ever kissed someone you longed for?: Yes
* how did that make you feel?: Amazing.
* have you ever casually made out with someone who you weren't seriously involved with?: Yeah haha
* were you single at the time?: Yes
* what are your ticklish areas?: My tummy.
* what are your turn-offs?: There's a few.
* what do you most like about making out?: Him.
* are you a virgin?: No
*if not, would you consider your first time to have been a good one?: Hell NO!
* how old were you when you lost your virginity?: 17
* have you ever had sex with someone you loved?: Yes
* have you ever turned down an offer for sex?: Yes
* if you are a virgin, how do you feel about sex?:
* if you are a virgin, (rock on!), what are your reasons to stay that way?:
* how much do you think sex changes a relationship?: A fair bit initially
* has anyone ever walked in on you during sex?: HAHA yes
* on a scale from 1 to 10 (10 being highest) how would you rate your sexual attractiveness?: Not very high at all!
* on a scale from 1 to 10 (10 being highest) how would you rate your - *ahem* - kink factor?: I can be a 10 when i need to be ;)
* how do you feel about casual sex?: Very good, thanks!
* at what level of importance does sex factor into your relationships?: I think it's fairly important.
* how important is it to talk frankly about sex?: Very..sometimes
* would you stay with a lover if the love stopped, but the sex was still enjoyable?: Not for a long period of time.
* would you stay with a lover if the sex stopped / got boring, but there was still love?: Probably.
* do you believe in love?: Yes
* do you believe in love at first sight?: Lust, yes - Love, no
* what would it take for you to love someone?: A lot.
* has someone ever told you they loved you?: Yeah
* have you ever told someone you loved them and meant it?: Yes
* have you ever told someone you loved them and not meant it?: No
* do you believe it's necessary to express your love in words, of is just the atmosphere and feelings enough?: Both
* are you a monogamous person, or do you believe in open-ended realtionships?: I'm pretty monogamous, when i'm in a relationship.
* do you believe love can end, or do you think it never goes away, and just changes, or what?: I think it can end...but i also believe that parts of it will stay with you forever..even if it's only scars or bad memories.
* have you ever been married?: No
* how do you feel about marriage?: I don't really feel anything about it.
* if you're currenlty not married, do you foresee yourself ever tying the knot?: Perhaps?
* do you plan on having children some day?: Perhaps?
* what are your feelings on polyamoury (an "open" marriage, aka: swinging)?: Suppose some people are into it.
* Do you feel that Bill Clinton's extramarital affairs were really the business of everyone else in the world?: Haha, no but he certainly made sure they were!
* have you ever had your heart broken?: Yes
* have you ever been dumped?: Yes
* have you ever dumped someone?: Uhuh
* have you ever mutually broke up with someone?: Yeah ahah
* has a romantic companion ever made you cry?: Of course.
* did you cry in thier presence?: Yes
* did you cry with them?: Yes
* have you ever made a romantic companion cry?: Yeah, i have
* have you ever had an emotional pain so bad it made you sick or physically hurt?: Once
* have you ever been unfaithful? if so, how did it make you feel?: No, never!
* if so, did they find out?:
* have you ever been cheated on? if so, how did it make you feel?: It's the worst.
* have you ever had to end a relationship due to life changes not related to romance (ie: moving, strict parents, etc)?: No
* have you ever learned an important lesson as a result of a break up?: Yeah, always look out for number one!
* have you ever gotten back together with someone after breaking up?: Yes
* did it work?: Of course not!
* do you believe there's hope for people after they get back together, or do you think the same problems that caused the initial break-up will resurface?: Maybe not initially, but eventually they will resurface.
* have you ever broke up and remained friends afterward?: Yeah
* have you ever broke up and became bitter enemies?: Yes!
* if so, did you ever made amends?: No
* have you ever broke up and lost touch?: Yes
* have you ever got back in touch with an old flame after a time of more than 3 months of no communication?: Yeah, all the time.
* were you afraid to do so?: Nah
* do you ever check up on old flames (weather by asking mutual friends, for example), without actually contacting them?: Hahah all the time
* if you've ever lost touch or went sour with someone who you loved, how did it make you feel?: Its awful but you move on!
* have you ever longed to get back together with someone?: Yeah
* although it surely depends of specific relationships, how long does it take before your out looking for companionship again?: Well, exactly..that really depends doesn't it.
I'm still crazy about him. *sigh*